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We hope this forum will serve as a valuable clearinghouse for suicide prevention information. Please feel free post messages about suicide prevention resources you have discovered, or simply share stories of healing and recovery. These are the stories we need to hear. We welcome voices from throughout the community.

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12-15-2008 20:56 hour
Donna and John
For all of you to remember, this fund is not ours. It belongs to our community, friends and family. So all of these "acts of kindness" are not ours...they belong to our community. We are only the eyes and ears. Be proud of yourselves, you are changing lives. Merry Christmas to all.
Love The Halligan family.
12-13-2008 09:23 hour
Carolyn Flora ( Raritan NJ , USA ) florac_24 <at> yahoo <dot> com
Halligan Family,
First I want to thank you for the donation I received. It helped me make Christmas for my kids. I am a single mom and live for my kids daily. I struggle with all kinds of issues,like all of us. I pray for you all. My sister Mary McCann is a huge support in my life and my kids she is the one who talked to yuo about my situation. I thank her immensly!!!!!!!I also work in a Mental Health Clinic, so I see all kids with kifferent issueds, and my heart goes out to all of them. Maybe somehow I to make a difference with them and their parents. Thank you so much for your help and if I can do anything to help the cause,please let me know. Thankful in NJ Carolyn Flora
12-12-2008 17:34 hour
I am sad to say that I will miss the candle litghting at sths tonight. I am abroad in London and there will be a candle lit here for Shane and for all of those who are remembering him tonight.
12-12-2008 10:28 hour
Kim Bullock
Our thoughts and Prayers are with you, especially today. You are an amazing family and an inspiration to all.
12-12-2008 08:33 hour
all i have to say is i miss shane like no other. i miss him more than ne one else that has passes away thats close to me. i want to thank the halligan family for setting up the memorial fund, that has helped people in the community. also for your support to the class of 2008, and the other classes that were there during the incident. hope you get a good turn out tonight at sths. i sadly will not be able to make it. MISS YOU SHANE!!! WISH YOU WERE STILL HERE. i kno you are looking down on me every day, or i would not be in the places i am. thank you shane!
12-12-2008 03:15 hour
Alex Clinefelter ( USA )
I first want to thank Aaron for creating the facebook group for Shane's anniversity. I hope that the Halligan family receives the amount of support that they deserve. R.I.P. Shane. You will be missed.
12-12-2008 00:17 hour
Amanda ( USA )
I have been thinking a lot about suicide, particularly Shane these past couple of days. Even though I went to SHS I never got to know him that well and I want everyone to know that I wish I had - he seems amazing. Every memory I have of him wasn't amanzing, but I have no bad ones either. He was just another kid in the hallway. I wish I had known what he was going through - I was at the same place, almost. It could have been me, and that petrifies me. I am happy to donate to your cause & I believe site like these will help many generations to come.

God Bless.
May Shane RIP.
12-11-2008 14:47 hour
Helayne Camella ( New Jersey , USA ) hcamella <at> comcast <dot> net
Dearest Family, I share this act of kindness with you, my daughter who is a single Mom with many diffiuclties was given a donation from your foundation, so she could make Christmas for her children , I will forever be indebted to Shane's Kindness, God Bless, Helayne Camella
12-08-2008 14:46 hour
Almost forgot...We were able to purchase a team jacket for a young man who could not afford it. Little things can mean alot.
Couldn't do it without you.
12-08-2008 14:44 hour
Donna and John
Friday the 12th of December is the 2nd anniversary of Shane's passing. We welcome all to our home that evening. In addition to the other families I have mentioned we have committed to helping 5 military families by providing meals and gifts. This is through an organization called Operation Homefront. If you choose to do so, please bring a small gift card to Acme or Walmart. We will distribute these to the organization next week.
Thank You
12-08-2008 14:39 hour
Donna and John
Because of your generosity, we will are able to provide Christmas meals and gifts for a number of families. We have donated to 5 families. Each receiving Gift Certifcates to Walmart and Acme. The Gift Cards allow people to shop for their own children.
12-06-2008 18:19 hour
Joan ( USA ) hgtvjoan <at> yahoo <dot> com
Our prayers and thoughts are always with you and especially with Shane. May you continue to grow in your strength as this year passes by. Love you all! The Parsons'
11-23-2008 22:03 hour
Aaron Strauss ( Wyndmoor ) aaron29100 <at> hotmail <dot> com
Has anyone been planning a vigil for this year's anniversary? I know the people in Shane's grade organized one last year, but since they're all away at college now I guess it's up to this year's senior class to organize this year's vigil. If you would be willing to donate some candles, I'd be happy to supervise lighting and handing them out at the high school flagpole the night of the 12th. Having followed Shane's example in becoming an Eagle Scout this past year, I would love to be able to do this for him.
11-11-2008 18:38 hour
Secret Santa
Donna You knew us as secret santa and help our mission last year. You sure put alot of smiles on childrens faces.

Not only did you and your family offer to help buy a child on our christmas list a new computer printer and software but you provided gift cards for the parents of needy children to buy gifts for them.

Thank You and May God continue to bless you and your mission
10-30-2008 21:17 hour
Dianne dlmp44 <at> yahoo <dot> com
Donna and John so kindly donated money to help a single mother going to school, working full time and caring for her own mother and troubled autistic son, her resources are limited and her responsibilities are huge. What an incredible "act of kindness".
thankyou so much for your compassion for others
Shanes Kindness fund is reaching so many hearts, I miss you Shane and I am so proud of you, I love you all
10-23-2008 19:52 hour
samdr ( pa , us ) fairyofhope <at> msn <dot> com
hi my name is sandra and i am a amry fiance and i no that shane is in heaven right now gurding us as he would have here. he and his family will always be in my heart and the heart of my fiance brandon. we will forever thank you. and shane i no you are watching your mom and she is one very special person. we love you shane the militay would have been proud to have you.
10-07-2008 10:04 hour
Donna and John Halligan
We are thrilled to sponsor a bowling team called the Fox Chase Champions. It is an organization that provides various sports to kids with special needs at minimal cost(bowling only) or no cost at all(baseball, soccer and basketball). One of our own little guys in Oreland is part of the team. We will be supplying tee shirts for 36 of the participants. Again, you are making a difference
09-17-2008 15:37 hour
We have just sent money to help a single mom with back to school expenses for her 2 children. In addition, Shane's kindness purchased batteries for a motorized scooter (donated by our friends the Sweeney's) for a young man battling MS.
Thank all of you...you ARE making a difference
09-16-2008 23:56 hour
Kate Maguire ( Oreland ) katemagu14 <at> gmail <dot> com
Forgiving the Wounds that Heal

So many words for the broken heart
None so many can feel
There’s only one place to start
Forgiving the wounds that heal

Love is the garden that’s endless
An image God has created
No creature will go friendless
Memories repressed, have faded

A friend will always help you
Guide you day by day
All hardships see you through
With God’s grace we pray
09-06-2008 13:56 hour
Nicole Samuel
I recently found out that Shane's Kindness has helped my friend that Mrs. Halligan mentioned. I wanted to take the time, like Meg did, to appreciate all of the overwhelming things that come out of this website.

I think about Shane all the time, and I am sure he is so proud of all the good that is coming from this website.

Thank you.

Love always,
09-04-2008 00:22 hour
Meg Dowling ( USA ) megdowling4 <at> yahoo <dot> com
Shane's Kindness helped my friend, who Mrs. Halligan mentioned, after an accident. The donation meant so much to her family and to all her friends. We're all wishing for the best for our friend and her family. I think about her and shane everyday. I wear my shane bracelet everyday to remind me of him and of the goodness that has come from this tragedy.

with love always,
Meg Dowling
08-31-2008 16:10 hour
kristi dalske
I would like to thank Donna and John and family for including us in this awesome fundraiser. And for remembering our son Chris. Shane and Chris had a hand in that wondeful time everyone had. Thank you all for helping support chris' memorial scholarship at the Sunshine Center. Love to all.
08-31-2008 09:12 hour
Donna and John
Your "ACT OF KINDNESS" has allowed us to purchase gift cards for a couple of our parishoners to purchase school supplies, clothing and baby items.
08-31-2008 09:08 hour
Shane's Kindness was able to support a family who's teenage daughter was severly injured in a fall. There is a long road ahead for this family, we will continue to see if we can help. But all of our prayers are most needed.
08-31-2008 09:06 hour
Donna and John
08-14-2008 19:45 hour
mommom ( LANSDALE, PA , usa ) deetoto <at> comcast <dot> net
How great it is to continue Shanes kindness and acknowledging his goodness by being able to give to people who are in need of it. Thank you all for remembering and giving of your time, effort and prayers, not to mention the financial support that you have given to my grandson. Thank you again. Mommom
08-12-2008 13:04 hour
Anne Bradley Bradley <dot> anne <at> yahoo <dot> com
i think this is great. i just thought i would let you know that, not that you didnt know that already. hope you are all doing well. miss you shane!! always in my mind and in my heart!
~Anne Bradley
08-12-2008 10:23 hour
Donna dmmaliz <at> comcast <dot> net
Just an update for the golf outing.
The registration for golf has closed. But there is plenty of room for the deck party and dinner. Please contact me for more info. Donations for silent auction and tombola baskets would be most appreciated.
Thanks for all you do.
08-05-2008 17:06 hour
We are happy to announce the First Annual Shane's Kindness Memorial Golf Outing. It will be held at the Flourtown Country Club on Friday 8/29/08
Golf begins at 3:30, with a deck party and BBQ beginning at 6:00. You don't have to be a golfer to participate. Tickets are available for the deck party and dinner as well. Please contact me at dmmaliz@comcast.net for more information.
07-24-2008 20:33 hour
Cara ( Philadelphia, PA ) Herondoubled <at> aol <dot> com
Words connot express my gratitude for the kindness your family has shown to my family.I had reached out in my time of need to raise money to pay for my son's tuition. Our business had went bankrupt due to the high prices of fuel and fees which, left us in debt over our heads. Our son Carey graduated from 8th grade in June08'with good grades and an award for academic excellence in Science(94 average). Carey was accepted to Cardinal Doughtery High School and was told he has a good chance of being a freshman on varsity soccer team. We could not afford the tuition right now. I had been selling household items, clothes, shoes etc..to afford this opportunity for my son because he is a good kid. I was never expecting an angel to appear and help our family the way that the Halligan family did in honor of their son Shane. Carey will being attending Cardinal Dougherty thanks to your "Act of Kindness". We hope you find some comfort in knowing what the kindness of your son has done for ours!!!
06-01-2008 23:22 hour
Kristin P. ( Philadelphia,Pa. )
Donna and John,
I wanted to thank you for sending the boys to a Phillies game...that is something they would not have been able to experience without you.They really had a good time and even got autographs! They couldn't stop talking about how much fun it was.I wish you could have seen the looks on their faces to see some of their inspirations in person! It was great...THANK YOU and thank you to everyone who has contributed to Shane's Fund!

I'm sure Shane is extremely proud of you and your family.
Kristin P.
05-30-2008 18:43 hour
Meg Dowling ( Glenside , USA ) megdowling4 <at> yahoo <dot> com
Its just over a week until graduation. I wish with all my heart that shane could be with us, physically, at graduation because i know he will be beside all of us as we receive our diplomas. This school year has gone so fast and I miss shane everyday.

Our school experience at springfield had gone so fast and is now coming to an end. I always imagined my graduation...and now its finally here. I'm so glad i knew shane for the time i knew him. I will carry everything he taught me through the rest of my life.

Everytime i step on a stage to perform i will think of Shane and i know that he will be with me in my heart.

I know this will be a very hard time for you guys. Just know that we still think about you everyday. All of our thoughts and prayers are for you.

With much love,
05-27-2008 19:22 hour
Danielle Argot ( Poconos , USA ) morty2223 <at> yahoo <dot> com
Homepage: www.caringbridge.org/visit/pierceargot
Dear Donna,
What a wonderful way to keep Shane's kind nature alive. Our family was the recipient of your generous donation. Our 3 year old son, Pierce has been diagnosed with a brain tumor. Our fantastic community has supported us financially, emotionally, and spiritually. We are blessed to have such wonderful support. We are very appreciative of your generosity as well. With much gratitude,
The Argot Family
05-27-2008 10:52 hour
Donna and John dmmaliz <at> comcast <dot> net
Just wanted to let you know, that Shane's Kindness was able to send 5 little boys to their first Phillies Game. Financially it would have been otherwise impossible for them to attend. The outing included hot dogs and a souvenier. Little things like this can mean so much.
Thank You
Donna and John
05-10-2008 21:08 hour
Barbara & Lora ( Pocono Lake, PA )
Donna, my daughter & I want to say thank you so much for being our angel. Today you left a donation for her teachers son who has brain cancer. It was a hard week Lora went in everyday to collect what was in the can at the office & it was empty. Last night I prayed before I went to sleep for something anything to be in that can for my daughter to take home to put in our envelope at home & there it was, again thank you so much. Tonights prayers will be that God always takes good care of you. The money will be passed along to the family in a few weeks at the end of the school year as a surprise.

Barbara & Lora
04-15-2008 12:59 hour
Due to a database update? All of our recent messages have been lost. I just want to fill you in on some of what we have been able to do.

-Money for a local family to purchase an oven.
-Therapy for a child in our area.
-Provided a family with some funds to be with their daughter at Children's Hopsital. She is 14 with a brain tumor.
-Assisted a single mom with money to purchase books for her daughter beginning college.
-Sadly, we have contributed to a family for funeral expenses for their child.

Just remember, these "acts of kindness" are yours....
God Bless
02-13-2008 20:17 hour
Kristin ( Philadelphia )
Happy Birthday Shane!
02-12-2008 08:38 hour
Kara karahalligan <at> hotmail <dot> com
Happy 18th Birthday Shaney! We love you and miss you. Make sure you eat a cheeseburger today:)

02-03-2008 21:49 hour
Kim (POS) ( Indiana , USA ) kdgentry <at> adelphia <dot> net
Homepage: logangentry.virtual-memorials.com
What a handsome young man and a what a wonderful tribute to his life! I am so sorry. Peace and Prayers, Kim-Mom of Logan
01-26-2008 16:52 hour
Kristin ( Philadelphia,Pa. )
About a week or so ago I posted a listing on craigslist for some used football equipment for some local kids who wanted to play football but couldn't afford the equipment,Donna and John emailed me stating that that they were willing to help,since then they have provided the children with everything they needed to be able to play.Shane was truely an angel and sometimes our angels leave us early and we don't understand why,although Shane is gone physically he is still here with us spiritually.His family should be very proud of this courageous young man as I know that he is very proud of them.
Again thank you to the Halligan family for your kindness and generous deed in memory of your beautiful son.
01-22-2008 18:39 hour
Amanda ( Medford NJ , USA ) amfravel <at> hotmail <dot> com
I guess we were not really aware of how much sucide is an issue in this country until last May. My husband's best friend since the 1st commited suicide. Jim was the VERY last person we would ever have thought to take his own life. He touched so many lives...over 500 came to pay their last respects that day. Being a mother of 3, I cant begin to imagine your pain and loss. My heart truly goes out to you and yours. We will be donating in Jim's name. Thank you for supporting this site to help all that are lost, be it themselves or by losing someone they love. Thank you again and God bless!
01-20-2008 17:52 hour
Donna and John
Our Christmas drive has been overwhelming. We have been able to do so much. Right in our own community we have been able to help with financial needs. We purchased a computer for a family. We helped parents shop for their own children. We sent money to a center that is dedicated to helping troubled kids. One of their programs is called "Prevention not Detention" If you get the chance check it out. The website is http://sunshinepreventionctr.org/

Please remember we are here for kids. If you know of anyone struggling, please let us know. We can keep any request confidential.
With love and gratitude,
Donna, John, Kara, Chris and Shane
01-16-2008 17:43 hour
Yasmin ( North Yorkshire , England )
Homepage: --FCUK-Y3AH.bebo.com
I Did Not Know The Lad, But He Seemed Like A Truley Amazing Member Of Public. It Is Such A Tragedy What Happened, And I Know The Feeling To Be Honest. My Best Friend Hung Himself, And I Have Been Feeling Suicidle For A Few Years. My Heart Goes Out To Friends And Family Of Shane, And I Hope He Is Very Happy Upstairs. Good Night, God Bless xxxxx
01-02-2008 05:30 hour
T. Clark ( Philadelphia, PA , United States )
Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to all!!!!!

The Clark family would like to thank the Halligan family for making our Christmas a better one. Thank you for the donation. It was used to buy food for the holidays due to my husband receiving his check late.
We wouldn't have had a good wholesome meal without it.
12-25-2007 19:31 hour
nancy schaeffer ( glenside , usa ) nschaeffer <at> msn <dot> com
Merry Christmas ... Peace Hope and Love
12-19-2007 10:49 hour
I was given a ShanesKindness card as part of a gift from a friend. In this overstressed, commercialized time of year how wonderful to step back and do something meaningful. Its ironic that as I stopped at my local church to drop something off, there was a funeral for a young girl at Mt. Holyoke who had just commited suidice. Listen, care, ass it on. Thank you
12-18-2007 18:59 hour
Louise Pepe ( BENSALEM,PA. , U S A ) YOBABE1 <at> VERIZON <dot> NET
Dear John and Donna
Received your cards today,thank you.I think the work you are doing in your beautful son's name is awesome.Keep up the wonderful work you are doing.Our thoughts and prayers are with youduring this Christmas season and every day.
Aunt Louise &Uncle Pepe
12-13-2007 12:32 hour
The Halligan Family dmmaliz <at> comcast <dot> net
You have carried us through a year. Thank You...We just wanted to share that because of your donations we have been able to provide so much for some local kids. We have purchased another computer...and countless gift cards so that parents can shop of their own kids.
Keep your eyes and ears open, if you know of anyone that could use a little help, we can be there.
12-13-2007 05:49 hour
Joan ( Oreland , USA ) hgtvjoan <at> yahoo <dot> com
Dear Halligan Family, I started my day today at Mass for Shane 12/12/07 and ended today 12/13/07 at the HS Flag Pole at 7:10am. Seeing all the love that was shared on the school flagpole by Shane's classmates is a tribute to Shanes life. Shane touched so many in so many ways, and this tribute to him 1 year later from his friends,helps everyone to be at peace too. To everyone out there that has pain,confusion or just not happy, please know that this site will help you cope. Love and Thanks to the Halligan Family always. God's love is everywhere. Joan
12-12-2007 16:11 hour
Caryn Hartman, Tammie Davis, Jared and Jason ( West Chester, PA , USA ) cmh725 <at> aol <dot> com
Donna, John, Kara and Chris
While no words can truly express our sadness over your loss of Shane, I just wanted to let you know that we are thinking of you today and have kept you in our thoughts and prayers throughout the year. You all have our love and our respect. Love, Caryn, Tammie and Family

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